Summer of Alignment

After several weeks of travel and writing, I am back from a retreat in Arizona where we discussed and experienced what it means to be in alignment. May was a busy month–I spent time in Virginia with my family, and we added a trip to Deale, Maryland where a friend let us stay in her home on the water. Being there reminded me of my parents, who have both passed on, but it was a good memory, for they loved the water and had a home on Hilton Head for many years. As soon as I arrived, I felt my breathing slow down and let my body settle into the slow pace the location offered.

I have been very busy with working on a book and submitting essays for consideration in a few publications. I never know how it will work out, but my job is to do the writing, so that is what I focus on. As part of a writing community, I find that I spend much more time writing, but I am also learning so much from the other writers, regardless of their chosen genres. 

I get inspiration from other art forms, such as live music and theatre, and have enjoyed both in the past month. I saw a performance of August Wilson’s The Piano Lesson, part of his American Century Cycle of ten plays reflecting the lives of Black people in the 20th century. In Louisville, Kentucky, I went to hear Rhiannon Giddens and her band play, something I did last year in Durham at the Biscuits and Banjoes Festival.  Next up, jazz and opera–I sample different genres in music, as I do in my reading.

The book discussion I hosted, Beloved: A Communal Exploration of Toni Morrison’s Award-winning Novel, ended in May, but since Ohio will be celebrating Morrison and her work until February 2027, there are still monthly discussions of all of her books. You can learn more about the many offerings at Literary Cleveland; the talks are free, online, and there are always good facilitators and authors participating. I read Sula for the first time and see why it is the favorite Morrison book for many of her readers.

After the whirl of activity and work, it was ideal to slow down at The Aligned Life Retreat in Scottsdale. Although the schedule was replete with speakers and hands-on workshops, we could choose the sessions that spoke to us or take the time to relax. I did a little of both. Being among a group of focused women who are managing complicated, fulfilling careers while taking care of their personal needs was inspiring. In addition to the work of building businesses, there were activities such as yoga, somatic movement, and for me, a first – a sound bath. Mind, body, and spirit were all attended to, depending on how you structured the day.

If it sounds like a lot, it has been, but I have paced myself, at the retreat, and over the last several weeks. If I make sure that I add in margin, a bit of space between the activity, I am fine. I wrote about this a few weeks ago and will share that with you soon. 

I hope your summer is going well and that you have plans for rest, fun, and work. May your life be in alignment with your deepest goals and dreams. 

Ramona

August Hiatus 2019

Every year, I use August as a planning month, my equivalent of get ready for school. I want to write more, read a few books, work in my yard, and enjoy this hot weather for as long as it lasts. But before I take a hiatus from posting, here are a few things I’d like to share:

Reading  During July, I finished all four volumes of the Neapolitan Quartet by Elena Ferrante and I highly recommend these books – My Brilliant Friend, The Story of a New Name, Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay, and The Story of a Lost Child. The novels follow the relationship of two girls from Naples, Elena and Lila, from childhood to their sixties. The sometimes-complicated nature of friendship, rivalry and loyalty, the role of women in a culture that was led by men, education as a way of escaping poverty, and the backdrop of Naples, Italy and its changing political and social dynamics are key themes in these books. I read the first novel, an extremely satisfying read, and the last line made me immediately pick up the second book. If you’re still looking for a great summer read, check out these books out.

Writing  I primarily write essays and also started a novel a couple of years ago. The novel sits in a folder, and maybe one day I will revise it, or see if I want to shorten it and rewrite as a short story. Earlier this year I decided to take a break from any client work and focus on a much longer book-length project. It’s too early to give much detail, but I am enjoying the research, some travel, and of course the writing, although there are days when the words come slowly. In August I will take a few days to attend a writing conference and expect to come back home with great ideas and new energy.

Staying in touch  I’m taking a break from posting here until after Labor Day, but you can still find me on Instagram @writepausereflect or on Twitter @ramonapayne1. Enjoy your August and I’ll be back in touch after Labor Day.

 

Weekend in Washington D.C.

This past weekend I was in Washington D.C. for a friend’s birthday. I used to travel to DC often years ago for work, and for a few years I lived in Reston, which is not far away in northern Virginia.

My friend had been planning his event for months, and kept the guest list small so he could gather some of his closest friends and family (many of us had gone to Notre Dame together, but there were people from all phases of his life). The invitation said black tie and we were excited to celebrate him and see what he had curated for the evening experience. Continue reading

Summer Hiatus

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Hasn’t this summer been beautiful? It occurred to me that while some say it is half over, I still have several weeks to enjoy this season. I am going to take August off from blogging, and devote more time to my other writing and getting to the stack of books I want to read.

I’ll return after Labor Day, refreshed and ready to start the new (school) year. I’m not enrolled in school but August has always been my favorite planning season and feels like nearly back-to-school time for me.

Savor summer; I don’t want to hear any fussing about how much you miss it once winter rolls in.

Ramona